Half relationships can be confusing for some people. I know it was for me and still. I usually have to draw the half-relationships out to understand what I am talking about. So let’s talk about those people we are halfly related to.
Growing up, I had friends who were part of blended families, they were step-siblings. Step-siblings are not genetically related, but their younger siblings were related to both of the step-siblings as half-siblings. That’s a mouthful, So let me try and use some pictures to explain it a little better.
Everyone has two biological parents, a mother and a father. We get half of our DNA from each one, so we are related to each. Our full siblings with the same parents are then fully related to us because we are ½ related through our mother and ½ related through our father. If one of our parents had children with another person, they would be our ½ sibling because we are related through 1 common parent, not 2.
So an easy way to look at this is a half relationship is related through ½ of the most recent common expected pair of ancestors.
So half cousins – well the common ancestor pair for cousins would be grandparents. So half cousins only share one of their grandparents in common. In other words, the children of half-siblings, are half cousins.
That can seem pretty simple, but when you go back a generation, it can really get confusing. Take a look at this. We have our half-siblings, they share one parent. What is the relationship between each of them and the children of their aunt? Half-cousin or cousin or something else?
Turns out, they are cousins, because cousins share a common set of grandparents, the relationships between half-siblings parents don’t affect their cousin relationships. This extends through all generations. You can be half 1st cousins with someone but both of you be full 2nd cousins with a third person because you share the same great-grandparents.
With DNA, half relationships are easy in theory but can be complicated in identifying unknown relationships. Half relationships share half of the expected amount of DNA as full relationships. So full siblings share 50% of their DNA, half-siblings only share 25% of their DNA. Half siblings also wouldn’t share any fully matched segments.
Half 1st cousins share 6.25% of DNA, while full 1st cousins share 12.5% of DNA. In a perfect world where averages were the rule, these relationships would be easy to distinguish by DNA. But DNA doesn’t follow the average, so a Half 1st cousin could share as much or in some cases more DNA than a full 1st cousin.
And this is the real trick in DNA research or unknown relationships. Two people may share DNA at the 1st cousin or second cousin level and that would indicate that they share common grandparents or great-grandparents. But comparing their family trees shows no overlap, there must be a mistake in the family tree. There is likely a half relationship in there that is unknown in the family. And that is where knowing where people were at certain times is important in order to identify where the half relationships are.
Up until the late 70s, the biological mother and father had to physically interact 9 months before the birth of a child. In the last 40 years, there have been thousands of sperm and egg donors who have children that are now or almost will be adults. If they take a DNA test, they may discover half siblings.
One thing that DNA testing has shown, is something population scientists have suspected all along. There are a lot of half relationships out there. Most of them unknown waiting to be discovered.